We all have a default filter. That subconscious lens that colours our interactions, especially on first encounters. It’s why putting such weight on first impressions is such a dangerous practice.

These filters are not fixed. They stem from our experiences and they shift as we evolve.

I’m sure there are countless subtle filters that much smarter people could explain. But the two that seem to be the most prevalent are trust and skeptisicm.

Some people default to trust, they assume everyone has good intentions. Others are the opposite, they default to skepticism and caution, distrusting nearly every input they encounter.

And how our default mode causes us to act — or react — to another, can either amplify or subdue the reaction of others.

Our perceptions are distorted, ever so slightly. And our ability to fully comprehend our situations is skewed.

Knowing your filter can help you tame its effects — and allow you to perceive things more clearly.